Sunday, July 28, 2013

Social & Moral Issues

Social and Moral Issues
(Proverbs 6:16-19; John 3:16-21)
10:30 am, Sunday, July 28, 2013, Windsor UBC, J G White

It’s Sunday again.
One week ago today it was Sunday, the Lord’s Day, as Christians say.  Sharon and I had company coming for supper and overnight.  We were going to make potato salad, among other things – but, oops, we had no mayonnaise. 
Off to the grocery store I drove.  When I entered, I soon ran into one of my active church members.  We had a very pleasant chat.  There we were, shopping in the grocery store: on Sunday.  Neither one of us blinked an eye.
I bought more than mayonnaise; and as I went out and got back into my car, I met another happy member of Windsor Baptist.  We greeted; then I beckoned her over.  “Do you remember, a decade ago, when we Windsor Baptists were concerned that Sobeys and Superstore and Home Hardware were going to start opening on Sundays!”  Oh… we were again’ it! Now here we are, buying.  And buying into it.
She admitted she felt some guilt and regret.
Have we bought in to the “secular Sunday,” as our Covenant calls it?
Christian morals and ethics, social issues – these things are important.  Important because the ways we live our lives make a difference.  Make a difference to us, to others, and to our relationship with our Lord.
Social and moral issues are not simple, have never been, really.  But we seem to have more issues now than we did a century or more ago.  These matters are not simple, not cut and dried, no matter what scripture verses we quote, one at a time.  Thank the Lord there has been progress, through history, among believers.  We’ve seen more of the light, when it comes to slavery, women, racism, and so forth.  We have yet farther to go, I’m sure. 
We love John 3:16, and maybe 3:17; but today we read beyond… words about evildoers avoiding the light, doers of good living in the light.  Judgment.
Shining flashlight at night on raccoons at the birdfeeders.  They scatter!  So do we sinners when light threatens to shine upon our wrongdoing. 
You’ve heard how to tell apart the different Christian denominations?  The Roman Catholics don’t recognize the ministry of other churches.  The Anglicans don’t recognize the authority of the Pope.  And the Baptists don’t recognize one another when they meet in the liquor store! 
God, in His perfect goodness and holiness, graciously calls us into holier living in these days of our lives.  When we rely upon Jesus for Salvation, the Holy Spirit does His life-long work of sanctifying us – making us holy. 
Many still wonder, how possibly to be good enough, to become worthy, and to stop failing.  How can the Holy God accept us?
The late Rev. Robert Matthews introduced me to this hymn by Thomas Binney, c. 1826.
Eternal Light! eternal Light!
How pure the soul must be
When, placed within Thy searching sight,
It shrinks not, but with calm delight
Can live, and look on Thee!
O how shall I, whose native sphere
Is dark, whose mind is dim,
Before the Ineffable appear,
And on my naked spirit bear
That uncreated beam?
(Remember the scene in the movie, Raiders of the Lost Ark, where the bad guys get the Ark of the Covenant, open it up, but then are melted by the holy energy that shines and is released?  This is the quandary… how can the impure not melt or burn up in the face of perfect Holiness?)
There is a way for man to rise
To that sublime abode:
An offering and a sacrifice,
A Holy Spirit’s energies,
An Advocate with God.
It is by Jesus, God’s Son who came and died and rose for us, that we are reconciled to God.  It is His sacrifice.  It is the working of the living Holy Spirit with our human souls.  Now, thanks to God, we can live in the light, and one day dwell in the pure light of God.  Today, the Lord shines the light, and shows the way.
Yet still, the saved of earth are imperfect, sinners.  And we do not agree on morals and ethics and social issues.  This is often tied to how we judge one another more than how we truly seek to live and make a difference in our global village. 
Ever notice that you have your own pet peeves when it comes to social issues.  Or, at least, maybe you see this in others.  One person is always getting excited about prayer and Christian stuff not being allowed in schools.  Another is often bringing up homosexuality, eyes flashing with anger.  Someone else is fixated on environmental issues.  And a few are always bringing up problems with Churchgoers and religion.  I used to visit a Christian fellow who always mentioned money, and seemed sure that I was always visiting to get his money for the Church!
Does the Creator hate one thing?  That bit from Proverbs 6 lists seven things the LORD hates, most are parts of the body that go astray: haughty eyes, lying tongue, bloody hands, wicked heart, evil feet, and then the lying witness and the sower of family discord.  God is comprehensive in His concerns: the Lord wants justice and rightness for all.  He doesn't really have six or seven pet peeves; God has the complete picture.  And it’s not about rules, it’s all about behaviour.  Our conversation about morals, ethics, social issues, must be with our God, and must be about everything.  Praise Him!  We have access.
Last week we heard Jesus teaching on divorce and marriage, in Mark 10.  As his opponents and students keep looking for loopholes in the rules for moral living, Jesus turns the subject back to God and God’s plan for wonderful life.  Christ is concerned with what really goes on among people – such as in marriage.  No matter what paperwork for divorce you get, that former connection stays with you, is part of your life, affects you and yours always. 
Jesus cares for us in our relationships.  Check out how he treated a foreign woman who’d had five husbands and was living with a new man – John 4.  He shines the light into her life, shows up everything she’s done, and she is totally impress by Jesus because of it!  She and her whole community seem to welcome Christ and put their confidence in Him.
Those things listed in our Church Covenant, some may seem vitally important, some may seem petty nowadays.  That strikes me as a cute phrase, “issues and questionable practices…”  It mentions in the list “literature, movies and TV programs which promote violence…”  Sharon and I rented and watched “Skyfall” last weekend – last year’s James Bond film.  I’m sure it promotes violence at least as much as buying mayonnaise on July 21 was part of a secular Sunday.  And what is left out that is just as dangerous as gambling, abortion, or neglect of the aging?  Questionable practices such as injustice for the poor, destroying the environment, or texting while driving? 
There are, as we know, new ethical issues in society, which the Scriptures do not address directly.  Stem cell research, nuclear power, global climate change.  But the God of the scriptures will address them, as we converse with Him. 
So the guidelines of our Covenant are very good.  We covenant together about how to be guided by the Lord in our morals and ethics, individually and in society.  We ask…
1.      Does this behaviour violate any particular part of Scripture?
2.      Does it harm my mind or body in any way?
3.      Will this behaviour hinder my witness as a Christian?  Will it be a stumbling block to others?
4.      What is God’s will?  Can I ask His blessing upon it?
5.      What would Jesus do?  Can I ask Christ to go with me?
As we ask these, me must also ask: how set are we in our moral standards?  Were our minds made up, long ago, about most things?  How then can we sincerely ask our God for guidance?  Are we ready to receive new answers?
Above and beyond what our minds and hearts think about moral living these days, it all comes down to our actions.  What we do.  As various Christian leaders wisely teach, the best way to show better ways of living is not to criticise those who are wrong, but to do things better, ourselves.  Show the better way, with the Lord. And keep learning from Christ. 
American activist and Christian author Shane Claiborne gives this example…
As Red Letter Christians, we need to be pro-life from the womb to the tomb.  Abortion and euthanasia, the death penalty and war, poverty and health care – all of these are issues of life and death.  And they are issues Jesus cares about because they affect real people.  (Red Letter Revolution, p. 85)
Claiborne is getting to know folks living in prison.
A friend of mine is spending life in prison for committing a terrible crime, which he says he has regretted every day of his life since then.  But when he went to trial, the victim’s family happened to be Christians, so they argued against the death penalty.  They knew that there is something wrong with killing someone to show that killing is wrong.  They said, “God may not be done with this guy.  It’s not going to bring our kid back, so we want him to think about what he did.”  Because of their witness in court, he was not given the death penalty.  He said, “So then I had a lot of time to think about grace.”  While he was behind bars, he kept hearing their words, that he was not beyond redemption.  He started reading the Bible and ended up having a powerful conversion.  Now he sees the point of his whole life and his vocation behind those bars as trying to continue to speak that grace to other imprisoned men and women.  (p. 88)
By the grace of God there is real hope for people in ‘hopeless’ failure and sin.  Good living does not save, Jesus saves.
By the grace of God we can be guided in our moral, ethical and social living.  Seek that Guidance from the Lord.
By the grace of our Loving God we can be empowered, and set free to do what is good and right.  Go, and sin no more.
The Lord is the light; the Lord shows the way.
Thanks be to God!

AMEN.

Sunday, July 21, 2013

Family Relationships: Think Orange

Family Relationships: Think Orange
(Deuteronomy 6:4-9; Mark 10:1-16)
10:30 am,  Sunday, July 21, 2013, Windsor UBC, J G White

The other morning, at my home, two families of birds visited.  Pheasants - wandering in the yard together.  Hen and seven youngsters.  :-)  Learning the cautious grazing lifestyle.
Starlings - down the chimney into the clean out and the woodstove - again!  :-(  Simply exploring nesting places!
They have  instincts to stay together, explore, and learn.  The young ones will, one day soon, be adult, out on their own, raising their own brood.
As a congregation of believers, we have family values, and covenant together about our family relationships.  We seek to grow faith in people of all ages.  And we send them out.
We may well ask “Will Our Children Have Faith?” (John Westerhoff III) or “Will our Faith have children?”  And how shall family values be passed on to our families, and our “church family”?
Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai Eloheinu Adonai EḼad
Hear, O Israel: the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.
Deuteronomy 6:4-9 (NRSV)
Hear, O Israel: The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. 5 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. 6 Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart. 7 Recite them to your children and talk about them when you are at home and when you are away, when you lie down and when you rise. 8 Bind them as a sign on your hand, fix them as an emblem on your forehead, 9 and write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
What we call Christian education - with pillars like Sunday School and Youth Group - did not always exist.  Before Church buildings and programs there was the family - the centre of discipleship to God.  Day-to-day life is where life-with-God begins and ends.
Reggie McNeal (The Present Future, 2003)...
Churches are so busy getting people involved in the church that they’ve neglected this fundamental agenda of spiritual formation.  What if churches cut down on church activities so people could have some conversations within their own families?  What if parents spent as much time with the children’s minister as the children do?  What if student ministers spent as much time with the students’ parents as they did with the students?  We typically hire children’s and student ministers to run programs for children and young people.  In fact, this approach by the church may do more to decimate the home as a spiritual centre than anything coming into the home on television or the Internet.
As you look at our ministry description for Pastor of Family Life, consider with your Lord how you understand this person working?  With the whole family, or, programs for the young?
Reggie McNeal wrote that ten years ago, before Reggie Joiner’s book, Think Orange, came out in 2009.
Think Orange = Yellow (Church light) + Red (Family heart)
We learn how to be family, imperfect, yet redeemed.
Reggie Joiner...
God is at work telling a story of restoration and redemption through your family.  Never buy into the myth that you need to become the “right” kind of parent before God can use you in your children’s lives.  Instead, learn to cooperate with whatever God desires to do in your heart today so your children will have a front-row seat to the grace and goodness of God.  (p. 48)
As the Shema says, talk about the ways of life with God everywhere: at home, traveling, arising, settling down for the night.  Talk about the ways of life you are following, living.
Many of you know about some of those Old Covenant people, and what their family lives were like.  Not perfect!  God was gracious and faithful.  So God will be today.
Parents must show them what it is like to pursue a better relationship with God.  Show them how it looks to prioritize Jesus above anything else.  Show them what it is like to reject the materialism and consumerism of this world.  If parents want their children to have it in them, they have to see it demonstrated.
Kids need to see their parents
struggle with answers,
face their weaknesses,
deal with real problems,
admit when they are wrong,
fight for their marriage,
resolve personal conflict.  (p. 63)
So it is for us who are grandparents, aunts, neighbours.
What a congregation (church) is called upon to do is support this: team up with families, couples, singles, neighbourhoods.
Was visiting my brother the other day.  A fellow military chaplain was there.  Interesting to hear them chat, and get a glimpse of the lives of military folk.  They have their own joys and challenges.  Steve and family just moved to NS, after four years in North Bay, ON.  The Lord is blessing and teaching Steve, Cathy, Jessika and Timothy in this transition.  Ministry, discipleship among those with the special challenges and sacrifices of their work.  A big group who was overseas just returned home this past weekend.  What a powerful homecoming.  Think about what being a disciples of Jesus in a military family is like. Some of what they learn is how to settle in fast, and how to move on well... how to deal with danger and disaster... how to be a team.
The challenges of being a child and a teen in this era is great for all, I think.  “Someone” pointed out that youth in school and university don’t know how to prepare and study for jobs that are not even invented yet!  So with disciples of Jesus Christ: what forms Christian fellowship and ministry will take are being reinvented as we speak.  We are preparing children to be young adults in an uncertain spiritual landscape... around the world.
The Lord uses our experience to teach us.  How did we, Windsor Baptist, and you their parents, prepare Andrew and Patricia, Jason and Jonathan, Jennifer and Jason and Gillian, Ryan and Sara, Elizabeth and Paul, and the others, to go out from us, and live elsewhere for the Lord?  We invested a great deal in those teens of 15 years ago.  We sent them out... and we also grown through the experience, praise God!
Some simple things I know to do are these...
1. Take God lessons to the home.  Make home the centre of discipleship to Jesus, not this place and our programs.
2. Take life lessons, family lessons, to God.  Interpret life in the context of the Lord.
3. Develop rites of passage, rituals, celebrations: in families, in neighbourhoods, in small groups, etc.  Together.
4. Be inclusive of couples and singles.
5. Be inclusive of families and children where all are not practicing Christians.
Deuteronomy 6:4-9 (Msg) Attention[, Israel]!
God, our God! God the one and only!
5 Love God, your God, with your whole heart: love him with all that’s in you, love him with all you’ve got!
6-8 Write these commandments that I’ve given you today on your hearts. Get them inside of you and then get them inside your children. Talk about them wherever you are, sitting at home or walking in the street; talk about them from the time you get up in the morning to when you fall into bed at night.
God’s laboratory and classroom for developing our family relationships is in our families, in our neighbourhoods.  As a Church, we must partner with families, we must Think Orange.  As families, we must partner with the congregation, Think Orange.
Some of our little chicks are very much in the nest.  Some are fledging.  Some are full size but still sticking close to home.  Some are just now out on their own, near or far.  Some are raising their brood now.  Many of us have empty nests.  Many of us are grandparents.
We are all still part of the team, the family, the flock.  Together, with God, life is good.
Jesus wept for his beloved Jerusalem one day. Oh, that I could gather you under my wings!
Now, let us focus on being His family.

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Stweardship: Grace and Joy


Stewardship: Grace & Joy
(Deuteronomy 14:22-27; 2 Corinthians 8:1-7)
10:30 am,  Sunday, July 14, 2013, Windsor UBC, J G White

Jupiter the bringer of jollity - Holst’s The Planets. 
Russell the joybringer on K Rock, 89.3.
Our God is a happy God; the Lord takes pleasure in His people, and is the bringer of joy. 
Listening to our Covenant today: Stewardship, of time, talent, treasure.  Is such giving on our part gracious, and joyful? 

Giving brings joy... to those who receive!
2 Corinthians 8  
Giving - of the Macedonain Christians to Jerusalem Church
    amid poverty and affliction... beyond means
    joyful
    generous
    voluntary
    privilege / grace
    sharing in ministry
    give first to the Lord, by will of God
    to urge/encourage others (Titus)
In 2 Corinthians 8&9, charis, grace, is used ten times in regard to the offering to help the church people of Jerusalem.
             NRSV                        NIV
8:1         grace                        grace
8:4        privilege                    privilege
8:6        generous undertaking        act of grace
8:7        generous undertaking        grace of giving
8:9        generous act                grace
8:16        thanks                        thank
8:19        generous undertaking        offering
9:8        blessing                    grace
9:15        thanks                        thanks

Charis means grace, among other things. It is from this Greek word we get charismatic and charisma.  The gifts of the Spirit are the charismata.  Here, in 2 Corinthians, the grace, the gift, the charis, is the thank-offering taken up to help needy believers elsewhere.
Stewardship corner in today’s bulletin... points out the classic Christian concept of tithing: 10% of what you have is God’s - first, off the top.  So don’t rob from God. 

Statistics from Mosaic, Spring ‘09.
Buck the Trend. 
There is a lower percentage of giving to churches now than in 1933 during the depth of the Great Depression. 
The average Christian in North America gives...
2.5% of their income to God’s work...
...and pays almost 10% to debt interest.
Over one third of regular church attendees give nothing. 0%
To give is to buck the trend!

Deuteronomy 14 - an annual tithe.  For what?  For a feast, a celebration!  The Kingdom of God is a Party!  Tony Campolo.
Think of Jesus’ banquet parables, and the marriage feast of the Lamb.  His first “sign”, miracle, in John: water into wine.
Celebration.  “It is the completion of worship, for it dwells on the greatness of God as shown in his goodness to us.  We engage in celebration when we enjoy ourselves, our life, our world, in conjunction with our faith and confidence in God’s greatness, beauty, and goodness.”  Dallas Willard, The Spirit of the Disciplines, p. 179.

Oh how deeply we need joy in our lives, and to offer gifts that bring joy to others.  Serious road accidents take young lives, an infant dies in hospital, a young teen drowns in an unwise boat trip.  The trials and tribulations of peoples lives go on all around us... 

“Holy delight and joy is the great antidote to despair and is a wellspring of genuine gratitude - the kind that starts at our toes and blasts off from our loins and our diaphragm through the top of our head, flinging our arms and our eyes and our voice upward toward our good God.”  Dallas Willard, p. 179
This week I’ve been reading Introverts in the Church: finding our place in an extroverted culture, Adam S. McHugh.  Remember that joy and generosity are expressed in many ways by many people. 

The joys of life are worth tithing to, according to Deuteronomy.  Celebrating together is at the heart of building community.  Loving, including, providing, sharing...
Ecclesiastes 3:1-4, 12-13
For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: ...a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance...
I know that there is nothing better for them than to be happy and enjoy themselves as long as they live; moreover, it is God's gift that all should eat and drink and take pleasure in all their toil.
God is the Joybringer and creator of pleasures.
Screwtape Letters, by C. S. Lewis
We’ve won many a soul through pleasure.  “All the same, it is His invention, not ours.  He made the pleasures: all our research so far has not enabled us to produce one.” 

The witness and evangelism of worship: joyful and celebratory and genuine.  Reggie McNeal.  “They need to understand the contagious nature of worship and the critical role it plays in missional renewal of the church.  There is hardly anything more evangelistically powerful than a group of worshipping believers.”  The Present Future, pp. 80-81.

All offerings can graciously bring joy.
Many sacrificial offerings give joy to others.
Fellow built a cabin for Camp Pagweak.  He enjoyed building; but was not so good at including others in the building project. Yet, the cabin has been part of a joy-filled ministry ever since: Church camp!
Sacrificial offering: giving blood...
Sacrificial offering: giving time and energy and giftedness to a Camp ministry, a Vacation Bible School, a Mission Tour...
Sacrificial offering: give time and energy to the community conversations about fire service, about the causeway and local environment, about economic development...

As good stewards of our lives, we can invest in, we share grace in:  Helping those in need
    Bringing Joy to others
    Celebrating
    Vision for ministry and for justice
    Hospitality

Shall we Christians be joy-bringers? 
We have a happy God, a generous God.
Shall we be like our Lord?  We be giving and forgiving, ever blessing, ever blest?  (Joyful, Joyful, Henry Van Dyke)
We shall be generous and gracious to our world.
And the Lord will take pleasure in His people!



Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Christian Growth: Grace and Effort

Christian Growth: Grace and Effort
(2 Peter 1:2-11)
10:30 am, Sunday, June 29, 2013, Windsor UBC, J G White

A.   To be a community for Spiritual Growth
A.1. Last week I read Reggie McNeal’s “The Present Future,” 2013.  Quotes from pp. 71 & 76
A.2. I look at the Membership booklet I’ve been developing, and hear the critique, get inspired about asking that same question to people.  ‘What are your spiritual goals, and how does joining this bunch help?’
A.3. This is part of my vision of a local congregation
A.3.1.    A place, a group for spirituality
A.3.2.    Remember my Gather, Grow, Go model?
A.4. 2 Peter 1 speaks of knowing God… personally knowing
A.4.1.    “I am not ashamed, for I know the One in whom I have put my trust, and I am sure that He is able to guard until that day what I have entrusted to Him”  2 Timothy 1:15
A.4.2.    Spiritual growth comes with knowing Him
A.5. It’s not about being good enough to grow
A.6. It’s not about passing a test to blessed
A.7. It’s not about earning God’s blessings upon your life
A.7.1.    Grace is opposed to Earning, but not to Effort – Dallas Willard
B.   Grace AND Effort
B.1. Grace is the gift of God, doing in us what we couldn’t
B.2. Effort is what we can do, cooperating with the Lord
B.3. Grace and effort go hand-in-hand
B.4. Peter:  “You must make every effort to support your faith with goodness, and goodness with, knowledge…” self-control, endurance, godliness, mutual affection (philia) and love (agape) “for if these things are among you and are increasing among you, they keep you from being ineffective and unfruitful in the knowledge of Jesus Christ.” (2 Peter 1:5-8)
B.5. Paul speaks of ‘running the race’  Philippians 3
B.6. Our Constitution speaks about growth with the same attitude:  “As members of Christ’s church, we will seek to go beyond claiming Christ’s name for salvation.  Thus, we will endeavour to become His disciples by availing ourselves of the opportunities for growth…”
B.6.1.    This assumes we have such real opportunities!
C.   Efforts
C.1. Action/effort is at least as important as beliefs and knowing facts.  Indeed, these are the goals of knowledge and beliefs.
C.1.1.   “Saved to do good works…”  ?
C.2. Work on your daily routine
C.2.1.   Spiritual practices / disciplines
C.2.2.   And periodic events, special efforts
C.2.3.   Change as the years go by, and as you grow
C.3. Work on new things to do
C.4. Work together
C.4.1.   Help others in their efforts
C.4.2.   Be helped in your efforts by others
C.4.3.   Reggie McNeal says “Cooperate and Partner with other believers in the mission of God” p. 82
C.5. “Make every effort to support your faith…” 2 Peter 1:5
C.5.1.   Reggie McNeal’s 10 year old book is a strong critique of the Christian Church: we have not been growing people with our usual methods.
C.5.2.   But we can.  If we get out of our ruts and make Faith in Jesus an active thing. 
C.5.2.1.       The learning stuff, the tradition stuff, the organizational stuff can be used, and can be shifted.  These are not priorities.
C.5.2.2.       Active discipleship to Jesus is a priority. 

C.5.2.3.       Spiritual growth is a priority!